I have two nieces. The older is more studious and loves reading and quiet time. The younger is a fashionista, rather social, and a cheerleader. I love them both dearly, but you might be able to guess which one I identify with more. My sister-in-law is a teacher, and the coach of her school’s science Olympiad team.
SIL: Dad’s busy on Saturday so you have to come with me to science Olympiad.
N2: I don’t want to.
SIL: Come on, we need a cheerleader.
N2: I’m NOT cheering for nerds.